We all go through seasons of discouragement. We experience difficult situations and unexpected things happen. We know that hard times are part of life and we know that Jesus will triumph in the end (John 16:33), but sometimes we still feel stuck here and now. 1 Thessalonians 5:11 Teach them to encourage each other and lift each other up, Hebrews 3:13 “Let’s encourage each other every day as long as it’s called ‘today’.” We must not let people take advantage of us. provide it.
Don’t let fear of saying the wrong thing hold you back from reaching out. Friends need to know that you care and that you are available. You don’t have to do everything right or know what to do, but you have to try. Avoiding out of fear of doing the wrong thing unnecessarily destroys relationships. Be willing to act first, admit that you don’t know what’s best to do, and keep showing love. Pay attention to what your friends say, what they need, and how well they respond. When you reach out for love, you really can’t do anything wrong.1 Peter 4:8).
Here are some cheap or free ways to encourage your friends.
1. card or letter
In the world of technology, we are beginning to forget the power of handwritten cards. The joy and encouragement you can easily give someone by sending a handwritten email is 100 times more effort than it takes him to complete the task. When a bill or junk mail is mixed with a message of encouragement from a friend, the impact can be felt. “Kind words are like honey, sweet to the soul and healthy to the body.”Proverbs 16:24NLT).
In addition to handwritten notes, a quick text to let a friend know you are thinking of her is always welcome. is not. You just have to be friends, and “friends always love” (Proverbs 17:17). Simple sentences like “I am thinking of you today and praying for you” or “I hope you have a great day!” She can put a smile on her face. If you have a funny story or an encouraging bible verse to share, send your friend a text her message.
3. Talk and walk
Exercise has been proven to affect mood. Our bodies and minds benefit from exercise and fresh air. If possible, take a walk outside. If outdoors isn’t an option, find an indoor location. You can also try gyms and indoor malls. If walking doesn’t work for you, you can find low-impact exercises at home, such as yoga or simple arm movements. Be creative. Most of us can find some way to get our bodies moving. When we exercise, we’re not only looking after the physical component, but also the emotional component. If you have a friend who needs a little attention, offer to take her for a walk and see how much you can benefit from it. on that matter. Just being with friends is encouraging in itself. Not all meetings need to be problem-solving meetings. A nice conversation about something can relieve stress about something else.Proverbs 12:25).
4. Homemade gifts
If you’re a crafty person, a homemade gift is a great way to encourage a friend. Taking the time to create something from your heart and talent shows how much you care. increase. Perhaps you are painting or writing poetry. You might make your own jewelry, cross-stitch, or make handmade cards. No matter what your talents are, friends feel loved and cared for when you create something for them.
For one thing, I don’t have much creative talent. But I have a deep passion for feeding people. When my friends are sad, discouraged, confused, or going through a difficult time, they can rest assured that I will bring them food. It’s intentional. There’s a good chance I doubled the meals I was cooking for my own family for her, and I’m sure I thought of you and prayed for you while cooking. When my family adopted a son with special needs, friends brought us dinner and we were blessed for weeks. I felt so loved by all the people who fed us. My older children and I still say, ‘Life is good when people bring you food.’ . Bonus points with dessert!
Sometimes I don’t know what to do to lift my friend. It’s okay to ask questions if you don’t understand. Remember to ask, “How can I help?” For those going through difficult times, it is often overwhelming. She’s trying to process so much that I can’t even think of giving her guidance on how to help you, a better option would be to tell her what you’re trying to do and then Give her her choice.
“I’ll bring dinner. Can I have it on Tuesday or Friday?”
“I’m taking my dog for a walk tomorrow. Do you prefer morning or afternoon?”
“I’m heading to the grocery store. I can email you a list or pick a few things for dinner.
“Would it help if I took the kids to the park or did the laundry in the afternoon?”
6. Speak words of encouragement/praise
The Bible is full of verses that encourage us. We can use the Bible to encourage others. You can speak these words to your friends when they need encouragement during difficult times. We should also speak the word of God to ourselves to remind our souls of God’s great love and eternal presence. Below are some of my favorite words of encouragement.
“I have commanded you, be strong and courageous, and fear not; for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” Joshua 1:9
“He wipes every tear from their eyes. The old order of things has passed away, and there is no more death, no more mourning, no more crying, no more pain.” Revelation 21:4
“Don’t worry about anything, but in all circumstances, convey your requests to God in prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, and let the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, fill your hearts and minds. He will keep me in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:6-7
“I asked the Lord and he answered me. He has saved me from all my fears. Those who see him are radiant. Their faces shall be covered with shame.” No. The poor man called, and the Lord heard his voice, and he delivered him out of all trouble.The angels of the Lord will encamp around those who fear him, and deliver them. ” Psalm 34:4-7
“So do not be afraid. I am with you. Do not be afraid, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will support you with my right hand.” Isaiah 41:10
May we never forget that in all circumstances we have direct access to the Creator of the Universe, the King of Kings, the Lord of Lords and the Savior of the World. Prayer is effective. Prayer changes hearts, minds, and circumstances. Whatever you do to directly encourage your friend, do it prayerfully and watch God work.
Photo credit: ©GettyImages/DMEPhotography
Megan Moore I am a military spouse and mother of three (through birth and adoption). A speech-language pathologist by her training, she now spends her time traveling around the country every few years. She has her passion for special needs, her adoption and ice cream.